mina needs your help

Hello my dear readers! I need your help! Recently, Extreme Restraints opened up a contest called “Steal Our Blog” I entered an erotica piece which they loved enough to post on the very first day of entries! So why do I need your help? The winner of the contest is determined by the number of hits that post gets until September 4th! So I need you lovely people to click click click away! Hopefully, you’ll enjoy the piece as well. *wink* If you, my wonderful readers, help me win this contest, I plan on giving back to you!  So click away….   oxoxoxoxox mina

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Day Off

The company I work for is on a scheduled shutdown this week. It’s been shaky times at work, and everyone needs a break. Over the weekend I have been struggling to separate my mind from the office, and I desperately need to pry my thoughts away from that place.

This morning I woke up at a very workmanlike 6:30. Some things I just can’t change, I guess. Mina was already awake, and we laid in bed wordlessly. Slowly, as my brain started to function for the day, I began to find myself physically craving her. But there were a few obstacles. First among them was the fact that she had not yet conceded that she was not going to go back to sleep.

But also weighing heavily was our conversation as went to sleep the night before. We had been talking about the fading of the D/s dynamic from our lives. One of the bigger challenges for me now was learning, again, how to approach her for sex. Once upon a time, I was quite good at the romance thing, and even the seduction part, too. But those skills had atrophied in an environment of receive-on-demand. Further, Mina herself was also in a place where suddenly I was wanting different things of her than I had in the past. We are having to re-discover basic romance.

This morning I decided to take a stab at it. Truthfully, it was not my best work, but Mina is generally a good sport. I recall mentioning that I had once been able to make her moan without going between her legs. Smooth, right? Well, we were both naked in bed, so I figured it was worth a shot. She didn’t laugh at me, so it was probably good enough.

I spent a lot of time with her neck, and her head, running my fingers on her sensitive scalp, kissing behind her ears and along her neck. I think she liked the scalp massage the best, but I could also see a smile on her face as I started to drift lower. She was still ticklish on the front of her hips, so I was careful to kiss softly as my lips approached her sex. I let my flat tongue lick on either side of her slit, which was greeted with grateful moans as her body slowly opened up to me. I let the flat of my tongue slowly spill into her blossoming flesh, careful not to assualt her sensitive clit too directly. Like that, I softly licked at her for several minutes, tasting her surging arousal. As she began to start rolling her hips, engaging in the pleasure, I found my own body decidedly unready for her. I paused, breathing on her open flesh. I decided to resume my attentions with more purpose. Her moans changed from soft approval to sharper cries. I matched the pace of her breath, giving her more and more attention until the pleasure rose like the tide, spilling over, and driving her to hypersensitivity.

With a satisfied smile, I slid back up next to her, and held her limp body, bringing the blankets back with me to cover her as she lay contentedly. After a time, her moved to my body, slowly carressing until she found the object of her desire, which surged in attention at her touch. She toyed with me a bit longer until I rolled on to top of her. I slowly took her with a series of lengthening strokes, spreading her wetness on me. As I finally sank fully into her, I nearly came in the simple delight of being wrapped up in my fiancé, her arms, legs, and more pulling me in. The sex was slow and methodical, as I tried to hold my orgasm off in hopes of enjoying her longer, but I was far too sensitive for that. I heard her contented giggle as she felt me pulse inside her. Her hands then tugged at my back, willing me to continue. Soon her moans reached a soft, rich crescendo, and we lay together, sharing our bodies.

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Later, we went to Hollywood and Highland, and tried not to get caught in the mob of mourning Michael Jackson fans wanting to pay their respects to his star. After a brief stop to see the hands in the cement at Graumann’s Chinese Theater, we ate and went to Lucky Strike for some bowling. Neither one of us had been bowling for a while, but after she opened with a 9/-9/-9/ on the first three frames it dawned on me to ask what she had scored last time. In the end, she would slam the door, winning all three games. At least I can claim to be in good company, as President Obama is an equally dreadful bowler.

As we left, at about 6PM, it finally dawned on me for the first time to check my work email. I smiled, that I had finally been able to spend so long in a day without thinking of my job. It’s been a wonderful first day off, and a lot of reminders about the things that make me happy to be with Mina.

HNT ~ Woman

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Toy Review ~ Under The Bed Restraints

This review is of a toy provided to us by Heather at vibereview.com.

When you think of things that you should have gotten a long time ago, and you can’t believe you ever went without, Under The Bed Restraints are right there with the microwave oven, TiVo, and oral sex. They are extremely handy, have a surprising number of uses, and hide away in a flash without falling out reach for spontaneous use. Finally getting ours feels like stepping up to the big leagues in having a truly top-notch sensual retreat.

The Package

Just the basics. A simple plastic clamshell with a cardboard liner to tell you what it is.

Inside the box you find only the restraint system. The outside of the box has all the information you need.

Setting Up

This is actually surprisingly easy. The leads are already hooked together in a sort elongated X pattern, so all you is toss it under your bed or mattress (since we have a really thick mattress/box spring set, I tucked the ropes under the mattress) and snap the cuffs to the rings at the end of the rope. Couldn’t be simpler. This product can in fact fit any mattress of any size. Once this is done, you need to strap a volunteer in, and the Velcro-type cuffs quickly (and comfortably) close around the wrists. Each cuff is softly padded for a little extra comfort.  A quick tug on each line, which adjusts like the backpack, and you can instantly have your victim of choice immobilized and spread wide on your bed, and quite unable to escape.

Putting them to work

Mina cheerfully volunteered for the job, (such a wonderful submissive), and I had her helpless in under a minute. For fun, I removed my belt and gave her a few lashes, before settling down to give her a good licking. I felt her hips twist as sensations became too intense at times, but she was unable to heave her hips away, and was forced to endure whatever I wished to give her. Shortly thereafter, I was able to climb on top of her, and press my cock inside. Mina was completely unable to influence events. On one hand, it was incredibly empowering to simply use her like this, but there were also moment where I wished I had left her a little more slack so she could raise her legs more. However, I did find a way to enjoy myself quite completely. After leaving a bit of my own DNA inside her, I decided to lick her to orgasm. I enlisted Iris to help, and Mina slowly rippled into a beautiful orgasm, muscles straining against the ropes. As we sat, glowing, I felt another erection coming on, and simply climbed back on top and went for it. The possibility of a long night loomed large for her, and suddenly we were both having new fantasies we’d never experienced before. If that’s not the definition of a great toy, I don’t know what is! I uncuffed Mina’s hands, and one leg, and left her to sleep with one ankle bound to the bed.

Being a happy victim volunteer, was really easy with this product. I can’t believe we haven’t tried a restraint system before! The straps themselves leave you with many options. They can go over the head or foot of the bed or to the sides. You can have someone spread eagle or stretched length wise. For those of you who are very nimble (and creative) there are many possibilities of restraint. The clips and metal loops make it extremely easy to restrain multiple limbs to one place. A hog tie can be easily accomplished.

As for me, our first go with this product had me spread eagle. The straps can be easily adjusted to how tight you want someone restrained. Sylvanus chose to have me very tightly restrained. He teased and pleased me and I was left helpless. No matter how much I squirmed or pulled, the restraints never budged and held me in place. The Velcro cuffs never came loose. I guess the only downfall to this product, as with all Velcro products, eventually, after repeated and extensive uses, the velcro will begin to lose its strength.

But as for here and now, this product rocks! It did exactly what I was hoping for. I was a restrained victim to my lover’s delights. There is something erotically exciting about that! I was helpless beneath his touch. I was fighting his desires (yeah, not really, more like pretending to fight!) There is nothing more exhilarating than being absolutely helpless while your lover uses your body for his pleasure… and then… he uses his mouth and toys to bring you to your own pleasure. Be sure to look for our next review coming very soon on the very toy he used on me the Lelo Iris!

Conclusions

For me us, it’s pretty simple. These are one of the very, very few things any adult bedroom must have.

Get yours at vibereview.com! Also check out their other delightful bondage fun! Or, check through the rest of Our Toys.

Sex Toy Buying Guide – Part 1

In the hopes of providing a public service to our readers, we are issuing our first-ever Sex Toy Buying Guide. One of the things we have discovered from our interviews and our comments is so many people don’t know what to spend their precious few “personal entertainment” dollars. So, we would like to provide this useful guide to those seeking some intimate enhancement. The guide begins below the fold:

HNT ~ exhausted

I will leave to you little devils to divine exactly what made us feel this way. HHNT!

A Question to the BDSM Community

We are animal lovers and thinking of getting a dog. Our question: how do dogs react to beatings? As in, when you are disciplining your submissive, does to dog react in a negative, mood-breaking way? Inquiring minds and all that…

A Sense of History

One of the weird things about life here is that we only seem to get work done around the house when someone isn’t home. Mina accomplished most of the unpacking while I spent a weekend out of town, and I finally got around to the decorating when she was out of town last week. When I had finally set myself upon thicket of cardboard in the spare bedroom I found myself wading through a lot of her stuff that I had never really seen before. High school yearbooks, glossies from her modeling days, and many many animal figurines. And as I looked at this pile of so many scattered pieces that fit together in the shape of a life, I was overwhelmed with a sense of the gift I am given.

It’s easy to take for granted the people around you as they are. You take people as they come, but it is hard to appreciate what made them what they are, and what it took for them to become who they are today. But there, among all of her things, the tokens of another person’s memory collected in my house, I began to have a sense of everything I had in my life. And sitting there, in a pile of memories, I was baffled by a simple thought, an inability to comprehend how I could worthy of all of this. But then, that is my challenge every day I’m with her, to earn what she has given.

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We have been quiet of late, since Mina has been out of town. She’s back now. So, we won’t be so quiet in the future.

The Sex Talking Meme, My Turn

So Mark tagged me, working in tandem with Marcello, no doubt. Being the cranky, dominant, sort, I will break the rules as I see fit, mainly by choosing not to tag others. There, I said it!

The Rules:
1. You must include this link to Sex Talk – Sex Advice for Men
2. You must answer every question! If you don’t have a good answer, you are strongly encouraged to make up something good; we like to be entertained.
3. You must tag three people.
Here Goes:

1. Sex in the Morning or Sex at Night?
Usually about 10-15 minutes after I wake up I have a craving for some, but morning sex tends to have a bit of a numb feeling. The rest of the day I keep a pretty steady supply of horny on tap. I love piercing a nice quiet night with Mina’s wails, though. Hmm…okay, Sex at Night it is.

2. Better Sex Music – Sade or Marvin Gaye?
Sade, and it’s not close. I like candles. If you like candles, you like Sade. It’s that simple.

3. Naughty Pics or Naughty Home Videos?
Naughty Pics by a mile. I don’t need to see my ass impersonating a motor oil commercial! That said, I would love to record the soundtrack to one of our fucks. You should have put Naughty Home MP3s!

4. Fabulous Sex With: Dr. Doug Ross or Dr. Greg House?
Well, since either would represent my first sex with a man…hey, why am I answering this at all…*sighs* okay…Doug Ross. I think he would be a little more gentle to a first timer. House strikes me as a little too likely to stand up, wipe, and snap a couple twenties at you before leaving the room.

5. Vibrator or Dildo?
Tough call here, I going to go Vibrator, though. As someone who usually uses them on someone else, I can find more creative uses for a vibe, especially the Lily! (Side note, nestle the Lily between your bodies so that her tip touches the base of the cock and the fat part of the body is right on the clit while you fuck…mmmmmmmm. Never the let the advantages of a tiny little vibe with a long-lasting batter go unnoticed.)

6. Bedroom Sex: Lights Off or Lights On?
I like the lights on. Not that lights off doesn’t have its virtues, and in fact I love ducking under the covers so she can’t see what I’m doing, but if you have Mina’s gorgeous body stretched around your cock and splayed in front of you, how can you pass on that view? She is so beautiful when she comes, too…her back arching, her body shivering, her stomach contracting to eject the screams from her body…Oh, back to the meme.

7. Word Preference: Pussy or Cunt?
I used to hate the word “cunt.” Mina fixed this. Permanently. But still, I only use the word while fucking Mina, so I have to pick “pussy.” Plus, honestly, I like the words that are slightly funny for Normal Conversation.

8. Spanking Over the Knee or Spanking Only During Sex?
Wow…these two are so close…I think I will pick Spanking Over the Knee by a gnat’s ass. I can enjoy a spanking slightly more when I can focus entirely on the spanking. Also, I can get a better angle that way, than I can during sex.

9. More Exciting: Sex in an Elevator or Sex in an Aeroplane?
Elevator by a mile. I am simply too tall and, *ahem* otherwise big for anything fun to happen on a commercial jet. On a private plane…whole ‘nother story. But then you have nuked the element of danger, and what fun is that? I love the hard-and-fast, how-brave-are-we element to the elevator.

10. Ron Jeremy or Peter North?
The Walrus or the Legend? Is this really a question? How is there anything to discuss here? How many rap videos did Peter North record? I rest my case.

(Side note: never seen any movies with either.)

11. Word Preference? Cock or dick?
A Dick is a guy in traffic who cut me off. A Cock is what I fuck my girl with. Whaddya think I would rather talk about?

12. Linda Lovelace or Jenna Jameson?
Again, is this really a question? Okay, let’s break this down:

Linda Lovelace – Mainstreamed the concept of the Deep Throat thanks to her lack of gag reflex. This puts her right on the edge deserving tithes from men worldwide. And she helped bring down the Nixon Administration. A true American Hero. Also, her signature movie has had a major documentary made about the movie, her anti-porn crusade later in life, and its cultural impacts.

Jenna Jameson – Makes it impossible for me to discuss my favorite Irish Whiskey with a straight face.

Do I need to go on?

13. Rope Bondage or Bondage Tape
Haven’t tried tape, but I LOVE rope, so tape has an awfully big hill to climb.

14. Give Rim Job or Receive Anal Sex?
Another close one…I’m leaning to giving a rim job, mainly because there are far fewer sanitary concerns, and, honestly, I like pussy better than ass. I mean, Mother Nature made the pussy for fucking, so the how the hell can you do better? But I always enjoy giving pleasure, and I like the position she gets in for a rimmer. I should do that tonight, in fact…

15. Get Rich Stripping in a Skanky Bar or Get Rich as a Call Girl for Celebs?
Skanky Bar by a mile. The crowd there will be so much fun, and there will be so many more great stories to tell from it. Plus all the free drinks!

16. Which Threesome – Boy/Girl/Girl or Boy/Boy/Girl?
I won’t say no to either, but if Mina is involved I would prefer the third to be a girl. If she is not (and I am REALLY stretching to imagine this one), I would prefer the other two be a couple.

17. Flavoured Oil or Tingling Oil?
Flavored, definitely. I can make her tingle lots of ways, but if her skin will taste awful afterwards, I don’t want it. As soon as we got good-flavored lube, the other bottles only collected dust.

18. Pearl Necklace or Swallow?
You know, Mina has swung me over to the Pearl Necklace side. But it is so rare for me to come from oral, as it is. Getting sucked makes me want to fuck too badly. Granted, I do jerk off onto her a lot, and I always
spray her body. She enjoys it so much.

19. Sex While Strangers Watch or Sex With a Stranger?
Sex while being watched by a mile. Now, sex with Mina pretending to be a stranger is a different matter. But and actual stranger…no thank you. Not interested. Of course, when it comes to being watched, I would really rather be watched by a few “special friends” in our bedroom that just do it in an alley or something, but I actually like that idea.

20. Tied to the Bed or to a St Andrew’s Cross?

Tied to the bed, though I enjoy putting Mina in a elaborate positions, so I would like tying her to the cross, though I don’t see wanting to be tied myself.

giving the gift of submission

Sylvanus returns home from a tiring day at work. I know he’ll be needing some extra attention… but I wasn’t prepared for what happened next…

He presents me with my pink collar and tells me to bid adieu to my internet friends. I do so and join him in the bedroom. He begins speaking to me, telling me that he has been neglecting the greatest gift I could ever give him… my submission. Tonight, he would test my submission.

He places the pink collar on me, removes my clothes, blindfolds me and tells me to lay down on the bed. I am to lie there and not move till he tells me.