so…. um…. hi

*waves away the cockroaches and brushes away the spiderwebs*

Ahem… it’s been far too long…

For those of you on twitter, you’ve been more aware of what’s been going on in my life, but it’s been far too long since I’ve written anything here.

I have been somewhat looking on Collarme for a 2nd Dom. I have met 2 potentials, the only problem, they are far away. Not too far, but still a 6 hour drive, or a cost of a plane ticket. One Dom in particular, I call RH. RH and I have actually hit it off really well. Our interactions are strictly online at the moment. He stimulates me and we have great chemistry with our words. Last night we had a virtual date where I got on my cam and did as told for his pleasure. I made him cum as I gave him a show while touching my body and showing him my very wet cunt.  Afterward, when Sylvanus and I went to bed, he asked me to tell him all about my “date”. Which further resulted in a proper fucking.

The bummer about RH, he does not have a cam of his own and he has hesitated sending me a pic. I haven’t pushed the issue, but he never sent me a pic. I think he’s afraid to, in case I don’t find him attractive. Obviously the distance is an issue, I’d like someone to be local. Especially, someone who makes me feel the way he does.

There is another Dom whom I will call TS. TS and I had some instant chemistry online as well. We haven’t progressed as far as RH and I have. Mostly because TS disappeared. You snooze you lose. I ended up connecting with RH. In any case, TS insists on getting to know me more. Ain’t nothing wrong with that, but TS is also not local and I also do not know what he looks like.

Many weeks ago, I answered two Craigslist ads from Doms looking for subs. Dom1 and I hit it off immediately online, however, he confessed that seeing me would be going behind his significant others back. I just can’t do that. We continue to talk and flirt online, but taking our play into the physical just isn’t possible.

On the other hand Dom2 and I have been talking and we even saw each other in person, strictly for conversation and coffee, two times. However, I just had to tell him it wasn’t going to work out. I feel bad. He’s been incredibly nice and patient with me, but in the end, I just didn’t feel that magic that would make me want to see him as Dominant and sub.

So right now, my only 2nd Dom prospect is many hours away. Which is fine, travel is absolutely possible, but it would still be nice to have someone more local. One thing that may make that possible is that Sylvanus and I went to the local Kink Club’s munch. It was a TNG (The Next Generation)  meeting. Everyone there was 18-35. We actually had a really good time. So good of a time, we will be going to an event this weekend. So, there is obviously a lot of possibility that we will meet some people, men or women, that can become playmates for us. Only time will tell.

The most recent news in our lives is that both Sylvanus and myself have been looking for playmates separately. I got frustrated with waiting for a local Dom who met my standards, so I decided to just find someone I can connect with. I put up an ad on Craigslist, hoping someone might come along and to my surprise, it looks like someone has. J caught my eye right away. His reply to my ad was just as lengthy as my ad. I caught his eye mostly because I took a lot of time detailing what I wanted. We began chatting via IM almost instantly and today we met in person over coffee. I have to say… I really really, like him. He’s good looking and is also in an open marriage. We have a lot in common and are both looking for the same things when it comes to seeing other people. In the end, we are looking to have a special, ongoing relationship with someone with the sole purpose of improving our marriages. We never ran out of things to say to each other and by the end of the “date” we had decided we are definitely seeing each other again. So I am excited to see where this leads.

Though Sylvanus has been having his own online fun, unfortunately his “date” today didn’t go as well as mine. That’s for him to talk about, however. As for us, our sex life has improved so much since we’ve gotten back to flirting with others. We’ve pretty much had sex everyday this week and sometimes more than once in the day. Flirting or seeing other people has definitely improved our sex lives for sure. It has definitely improved my sexuality and desire for sex.