an update

Yes, it’s been awhile since we have written anything here.

Sylvanus and myself have been extremely busy. Since Sylvanus found out he had a new job shortly after Christmas, it’s been a crazy rush to get our shit together.

We have spent the last month, packing our home, as well as getting rid of the things we no longer need either by donation or trash.

Any free time has been spent connecting with our friends and family. We even fit in one last time with B and D. Sylvanus had a much better time with B and I had an equally good time with D. We may never get around to writing about it, but Sylvanus had a
“dominating” time with B in the guest room, while I enjoyed many orgasms with D.

We spent most of last week (even managed to miss the rare storm that hit LA) in NY looking for our new home. We came home, settled on a house that we will be renting for awhile. The one we really wanted just wasn’t going to be available in time, so we went with our second choice. Hopefully, we’ll be very happy there.

This coming week, Sylvanus and myself pack up the dog, cat and betta fish and we hit the road cross country to our new home. The movers come on Tuesday to collect our things and then we hit the road either on Wed or Thurs. I still can’t believe that I am leaving sunny SoCal for snowy New York state. lol. It’s a whole new adventure for this girl.

So we’ll be scarce around here for a little bit longer. We plan on tweeting our journey on twitter, so please join us there… mina is @mydesire and Sylvanus is @sylvanus. When I’m driving he’ll be tweeting and vice versa.

In the upcoming weeks you can look forward to a few product reviews (one’s that were poorly timed and put off by the move) from Wet Together and Va Va Voom.

See you on the East Coast friends. I’m gonna miss you CA!

This Time Around

“I am going to walk the dog. Be naked, collared, and in bed with your chain when I get home.” I left Mina with those instructions while I took the dog out for a walk. I had something simple in mind: her taste. I had been craving it for days, but events never worked out the right way. Granted, we were still having sex, and all the extra time I have been spending at home while on my “sabbatical” has been a great thing for our married life. Being less stressed is good, and being together more is definitely good. But somehow, this simple, unique joy kept getting missed. Well, not this time.

I came back and Mina was as I instructed. She had wisely chosen to run her chain over the comforter and off her bare skin. In the winter, our house gets very cool, especially being adobe, and, like most LA homes, has very little in the way of climate control. A single radiator in the wall takes care of the whole house. On winter nights, it can get a little chilly at home, and she wanted the frigid chain away from her skin. I smiles as I got to bed, and then took my clothes off, and slid next to her. She smiled her “confused submissive” smile. I then announced my intentions, and her face went sour. “You know that area is full of cream, right?” She, unfortunately, was referring to a very powerful medicated cream she had applied earlier that night because of her hari starting to grow back in. She grumbled about needing to wax.

After a moment’s thought, I decide that I want what I want, and I can be careful. I submerge under the covers and slide down, ordering her legs wide apart to spread her open. Her body opened up to me, my tongue finds her hidden crevices to fit and begins licking at her clit. Her breathing slowed and deepened, and I saw her body start to along the familiar path to orgasm like my favorite bedtime story. The soft moan floated from her mouth. Then the next…never came. I continued to lick, and her body moved, but the moans seemed impossible to get, the relaxation and rhythm of her pleasure never emerged. Under the blanket, the heat was suffocating. I tried to bring more air in, but I was feeling trapped and claustrophobic. It wasn’t right. Her mind wasn’t there, my moves weren’t there, something was wrong. Finally I did something I have never done before. I gave up. I popped my head back into the cool air of our bedroom, oxygen rushing into my lungs. I unhooked the carabiner on her chain, and later took off her collar. She was a free submissive. Unable to sleep, she got up to finish her chores for the night. I drifted off to sleep.

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It felt like it was about five minutes later that Mina was crawling back into bed, jostling just above the waters of sleep. In truth, if was hours later. Her body was cool, nearly frigid coming under the covers and she curled up near my arm. Largely asleep, I lifted my arm around her. “Come and get the full body treatment.” She curled up under my arm, snuggling her body full-length against mine. Her skin felt cold against me.

“Oh my GOD you’re warm,” she gasped, as she threw her limbs across me to get as much of my sleepy glow as she could. Her right hand landed on my thigh, and I was suddenly more awake. After a minute, her hand began moving, drifting in lazy circles up to my stomach and back down to my thigh. My brain was on full alert now, as her hand occasionally slid past the slowly-waking organ between my thighs. After a few minutes, her hand landed unashamedly on my cock, and it began surging to erect life. The first moment escaped my lips, but I remained mostly quiet, not wanting to break the spell. Her hand gripped the shaft, stroking it up and down. Then she began adjusting the sheets.

I looked down, expecting her to swing a leg over, but instead her head went down, and I felt the her cool, slick mouth on my cock. I knew that the coolness of her body on me was reflected as my heat in her mouth. It sank wetly down on my cock and I moaned openly now. Her hand and her head working up and down in a practiced motion, our years together showing in the expertise that she handled me with. I laid back happily, my eyes open to the darkened ceiling as she continued to work such delicious pleasure out of me. When her head lifted off, the next motion was the one I was expecting.

Mina rose to her knees and lifted a leg over me, settling her hips over mine. Her hands each pressed into the pillow on either side of my head as she turned her hips, artfully holding the tip of my cock between her labia as she slid down, finding just…that…spot. She pressed backwards, sliding smoothly down my shaft taking me in fully. Her body no longer felt cool as she took me in, her heat now matching my own. She sat back, resting her weight on my hips, keeping me buried deeply inside her. Rather than lift up and down, she began grinding her hips on me, rubbing her clit on my smooth skin. My hands went to her breasts as she steadied herself, using my hips for her pleasure while keeping me fully inside her. Knowing her own body completely, she conjured an orgasm forth for herself, moaning with abandon as I kept my hips positioned her, enjoying the inexorable clamping of her muscles on me while her body erupted.

As soon as her nerves began to quiet from the firework, she leaned forward, her hair draping down, and began pumping her body up and down my length. This is my motion, the one that makes me come. One trait she and I share is that we love to get off after the other. She loves the feeling of my cock pumping her full, and I love the heated, swollen feel of a post-orgasmic woman’s body. This was my treat now. My arms rose up, pulling her torso down on mine, holding her still as my hips began pumping and thrusting from below, using her body, taking her. We kissed briefly, then her lips went to the base of my neck, kissing me. I smiled at how she knew my secrets, and suddenly the simple pleasure of sharing in her body began welling up with electricity as my orgasm rose forth, summoned. I moaned as I held myself inside her, letting her feel each pulse as I emptied myself inside her body. She giggled softly each time she felt another surge inside, then happily relaxed, sinking onto me, and laying there, joined.

It wasn’t long after that she rolled off, pulling the blankets back up to preserve the heat we created, and drifting quickly off to sleep. But now I was the one inspired, and unable to sleep. It would take an hour of feverish dreaming and rituals before I could return to bed, and quiet my thoughts for the rest of the night. She felt a little guilty that she kept me up that long, but I was simply proud of my amazing wife.

HNT ~ Cold

Our new year means a lot of changes. With the big move from sunny LA to the northeast pending we have been busy getting cold weather survival gear and packing. Of course, we have to do it all with style…

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HNT Gallery 2010

re-emergence

“Character, like photographs, develops in the darkness.”

-Yousuf Karsh

It’s been tough for me lately. I’m sure our readers have gathered that, and those on twitter have, as well. I have needed some time to find the mental space to write about what happened. One day, I will sit down and start writing the book about my old boss, referred to previous as TopHat here. But, the fact I can call him my old boss is a start.

The shortest form of explaining what has happened follows, and I will lead into the long version in a bit. On December 17 my old boss blew a fuse over a mistake in my department. He came absolutely unhinged, and that night I realized I could not deal with the new version I was going to see. On the 18th, he continued lashing out. I realized I was going to be completely paralyzed in my job, and he was going to have me by the neck. I decided I couldn’t function, and told him I quit. He asked for it in writing, which I gave him promptly. He accepted, and we agreed that the 18th could be my last day. To my shock, he left me with a generous severance package, and a letter of recommendation. I went into Christmas shutdown with no job whatsoever, hoping to hear from an interview I had done on the 14th. On the 28th, I heard back, with an offer, and a better one that I was expecting. I decided to accept the offer, and as a result Mina and I will be moving away from Los Angeles to western NY by the end of this month.

On a more personal front, our sex life has reblossomed, as I slowly came out from out of the shadow of the psychological terror I was living under. We had to spend Christmas apart, to save money and because our respective families both needed us at home. While apart we had our first real cyber play in a while, via text message, while I was driving back from dinner out with my family, and it was HOT. I also had Mina play with a few others online, which turned me on even more, and I did a cam show for her as well. When I got back, it was four in the morning by my body’s time, but she wore an amazing outfit, and I suddenly found the energy to have her. The following day we had sex three more times, and our sex life has sizzled since.

As I think back about the job, I am grateful that it brought me out here to LA, and that it made it possible to be with Mina. I am very sad to leave LA, who is like that really amazing, addictive lover that just is not good for you, and I don’t know how the blog will change. I always loved being an LA blogger, denizen of the never-ending sunshine and beautiful landscape. I’m not sure how this will go in our new environs, but this is a part of our lives, and one I would never do without.

However, our “to do” lists have exploded recently, and we now have a lot of things to attend to every day. We will blog when we can, between the frequent, hot fucking and packing and saying goodbyes. In the meantime, I will try and write both the sad story of how my work life unraveled, and the happy story of how my bed caught fire.

So, if you were wonderign where I was, now you know.